You both enjoy sex, now the best thing to do is find out how.

Like men, not all women are the same. They differ in what turns them on and how they like to be touched. And although most men want to please the person they’re having sex with, all good intentions are often forgotten the moment their anticipatory excitement rises. They involuntarily snap back into familiar techniques. Their learned behaviour.

This is not unique to the sex industry, if they’re being honest, most women will confirm this is a common problem.

Most men have never been taught how to properly touch a woman’s body, unless they were lucky enough to lose their virginity to someone older or more experienced, and most women lack the confidence to communicate what they really want to men. And this cycle continues.

Sexually, there is nothing better than a man who knows what he’s doing, who listens, and applies himself. So by all means ask what turns her on, but only if your intention is to follow through. If your escort’s pleasure is essential to yours, the best idea is to really try and listen when she tells you what she likes (or doesn’t), then keep checking in with yourself. Are you still doing it the way she described? Or have you inadvertently reverted back to doing what she’s indicated she doesn’t like? Doing things differently won’t happen overnight. Like anything it requires practice to change habits of a lifetime, but your reward will be the authentic version of her desire. And for most men, it seems the preferred option.