Dear Jennifer: I’m 57 and I get ignored at the office
Dear Jennifer Stuff.co.nz
Dear Jennifer Stuff.co.nz
I’m a 57-year-old invisible woman. No I don’t have super powers, but I do have a middle-aged face and I feel ignored in many situations. A lot of the time it doesn’t bother me, but it drives me nuts at work. I’ve worked in my sector for a couple of decades. I do good work and deserve respect but increasingly I don’t get it.

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